Villette, I only just now learned of the passing of your beloved Husband. Please know that my heart goes out to you. Take good care of yourself Hon, and let others take care of you as well. Grieve at your OWN pace, talk about him often, it truly helps and when time has passed, if you can, try and resurrect the image of the healthy man he once was. Remember and cherish that person; look at the precious memories you shared together before he became ill. He would want you to remember him that way. Let those images sustain you, like a beautiful picture you can take out and look at any time.
I send to you much love and comforting hugs,
Lauren
P.S. I want you to know, that since I have joined here in Feb this year, I always enjoy your posts. You show such wisdom, empathy and caring in your words (as well as an extraordinary sense of humor...
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