It is stressful, but my neighbor gave me some advice leave the potty pad in one place where you want your puppy to go potty, and don't change it right away especially if they pee. Leave the wet pad there for a while so they will smell it and pee again. Then throw it away when it is to soaked. As for the pooping my baby just turned 5 months, and he is 85% potty trained when he feels like it. When i see him circling i run grab him and take him to the pad and tell him poop here, if he walks away and starts to circle again i take him back again and tell him poop here. The other night he surprised me and went poop on the paper by himself. He has his good days and his bad. If he poops on the pad leave a little bit of a smear so he will come to it. Good Luck and don't give up, but reward if they do right.
