i am so sorry to hear about the past four years you have spent with this guy. I had a boyfriend like that sort of in high school, those relationships are unhealthy and the best thing to do is to stay out. But theres a twist to these relationships too, the men seem to be so manipulative, they know what to say (obviously because he's been breaking your heart for four years so he knows how to get you back) which is completly unacceptable on their part. It is not your fault you are not a complete idiot, he's the idiot, he knew what to say to get you back and its as simple as that. I do hope that your relationships from now on get better and I hope (this may sound funny) that you are blessed soon with the greatest guy on earth to make up for all the terrible things he has done to you. Good luck hun. But really remember you are not an idiot, dont in any way think that this relationship and you going back was your fault. |