If you want to take her to a groomer, or even see how she would react to groomer, I actually highly suggest Petco. I took Wobie there for his first grooming, because I knew the manager of the grooming department, but she said that most groomers there will work really hard to make it a good experience for the dogs. (BTW, Wobie is horrible when I try to groom him, he's like Susana, except that he DOES bite.
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These are the things that she did when Wobie and I came in for grooming, and she said most good groomers will do these things.
-An hour before she even started grooming, she brought us into the grooming room and let us sit there and watch her groom some well-behaved dogs so Wobie could get used to the sights, smells, and sounds of grooming.
-Then she played with Wobie for a while, gave him treats, and lots of kissies!
-Then she let him smell all the equipment she'd be using.
-When she started grooming, she let me stay there and hold him and give him treats.
-She gave him frequent breaks so that he wouldn't get too upset.
He was still horrible, and she was still tired out afterwards, but I was sooo impressed. Maybe when you look for a groomer, you can ask if they can do these things.