yes...some of these people can be nuts. i think that kind of cancelling plans is so rude even if some one has a condition. i can see on occasion but more than once is more than enough. the person that i wrote about actually gave up $100 to cancel the plans.
i actually think in her case her mother (who is elderly and prob has some kind of condition) runs her life which i think is VERY sad. and i think she is so used to it that she just feels comfortable staying in her comfort zone. but if that is the case stay there alone and don't try to involve others in your situation.
i really will just yes her to death from now on.
tina