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Originally Posted by BabyFidgette  Now, what did you do? Did you ignore him? I would suggest ignoring him. But if you just can't, I'd write him back and say...I'm glad you found somebody else, so have I. So stop writing me and let's move on. 
Stay strong, you can do it! You are better than his crap! |
I ignored it, that was really all I could do...This is something he has done in the past, he creates new women in his life, at one time when we broke up he claimed to be engaged for example, and generally these things check out to be lies used to lure me back in. It is only when we are not broken up he likes to get with other women, and then it has just been awkward one night stands...Or he does this thing where he will lead women on, people like our law school classmates, etc then tell me they are hitting on him and tell them 'Oh I am sorry you got the wrong idea, Allison and I are together you know.'
The problem is he does not have any concept of what he wants, from me, from himself, or for anyone else. Well that is not THE problem, but one of many!
Again, thank you all for your support the last day has been super rough and I have been really fighting the urge to talk to him about this. Talking to you folks is a healthier substitute!