Sleeping in separate beds is a well kept secret in many marriages. Last year, over 1/4 of married couples in the US admitted that they had separate beds and a trend among couples building a new home is to request two master bedrooms or two adjoining bedrooms be built.
There are a variety of reasons why a couple choses separate sleeping arrangements. The fact is that whether sleeping in separate bedrooms is right or wrong depends on the couple and their relationship.
If one person is unclear on why they are sleeping in separate beds, unhappy with the arrangement, or if the intimacy level in the marriage decreases, then its an issue that should be discussed and worked through. Otherwise, its a perfectly normal arrangement that can actually create a happier marriage.
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