Thank you so much EVERYONE for your input...since I posted last my common law has told me that he did call to book an appointment with a doctor a few weeks ago and he is still waiting to hear back...I was shocked and pleased all at the same time..he knows something is very wrong and he does want the help...at least at this point he does...I dont threaten to leave him...he does a good enough job of spewing out those threats when he is going through whatever he is going through. I did tell him that if he didnt recieve help then yes I will have to leave and I will follow through with it. I left an 11 year marriage...I can leave a 4 year relationship...lol...I just know that if he does get the help he needs he will be as happy as I am. He is 48 years old now and thinks he has been bi-polar since he was 15...interesting...
Thanks again for all you stories..they really meant alot to me to know that someone else is or has lived through this...
Dawn |