[Akhong]

Hi, welcome to YT! I understand that you don't want to just "give" your yorkie away, however, the situation doesn't seem to be working for you or your family...and perhaps even your yorkie...so maybe you should seriously consider re-homing the yorkie.

I'm sure you mean well by coming here and trying to seek advice and vent, but if it's already been 14 months and it's still not working, it's probably time to move on. I'm sure that there is someone out there that will be willing to look after this yorkie or even buy them from you. Either way, it seems as though you're getting some wonderful advice from people on here. Good luck!