I understand what you're going through, because I have Borderline Personality Disorder, which is somewhat similar to Bipolar Personality Disorder. I know I'm a pain in the butt to deal with, and sometimes I don't know why my boyfriend and family put up with it.
If he absolutely won't get help, there's nothing you can do. You really don't deserve to have your life ruined because of his refusal to help himself and you. Have you tried talking to him about it during his "highs"? Is he more receptive to it then?
I will tell you that if you could convince him to get help, in the form of therapy, medication, or whatever is necessary, it will make a world of difference.
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