I Know Exactly What You Mean, We Had A Similar Sort Of Relationship With My Husbands Parents, He Has A Sister And Nephew (that They Treat Like Another Son - But Thats Another Story). And Yet It Was Always Us That Were Called Upon And Expected To Be There When Needed.
We Just Accepted It Really But Last Year A Big Argument Occured And She Upset Us So Much - And Until We Get A Proper Apology From Her, We Dont Speak To Her. This Was More Serious Than A Normal Family Argument.
Though I Never Thought Anything Like This Would Happen Between Us, I Have To Admit, Life Is Real Quiet And Calm Now. My Fil, Still Speaks To Us, Which Shows Us That He Feels His Wife Is At Fault, But Obviously He Must Stand By Her Too.
My Point In All This Was That Even Though It Was Always Us That Did Things For Them And Was Always There For Them - We Never Got Any Appreciation For It, We Were Taken For Granted.
Good Luck With Your Situation. |