I'm so... sorry to hear about your Dad.
It's very hard on all family members when someone you love is that sick. I will say a prayer for your Dad and for you and your family. My mom had Hospice at the very end at my sister's house and they were wonderful. We didn't have to pay for any of her morphine or to rent the hospital bed or the equipment. But it is each individuals choice to have them or not. Take Care..... and know that others have been where you are now. I was only 34 when my Dad died of Lung Cancer.