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Originally Posted by xchristiex  Long..long story. i'll try to make it short. i started dating this guy, that had recently broke up with someone eles, that someone was pregnant. she had the baby, and the child is now 8 months old. my guy has seen this child 3 times, she has kept the baby from him, he just won joint custody in a nasty court case. its a bunch of drama...and i hate it. i'm stuck in the middle, and now he is supposed to be getting this child for the 1st time soon. |
Oh honey, this is just a baby....you are going fall in love. PLEASE accept this child as the infant that it is. PLEASE don't feel in the middle. PLEASE snuggle and love on this little angel that is caught in the middle and didn't ask for any of this. PLEASE don't hold it against this child who the parents are. This all happened before you. It will probably be hard for the baby at this age being seperated from Mom the first time. Be patient and kind. Aslo, be thankful it isn't a 14 year old you are about to meet and have to be accepted by for the first time
. Trust me, I KNOW THE DRAMA!!!!! Been there, done that
!!!!! I absolutely LOVE babies and am quite a baby hog....hand one over and just TRY getting it back
! Enjoy your time with the child....it will be going back to Mom before you know it.