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Originally Posted by Rockster's Mom  Becoming my daughter's (step) mom was the best decision I have every made. When I met my DH is told be up front he had sole custody of his daughter and he was not going to waste his time dating me if I could not accept that. Will I did accept it and I got a very special blessing out of it. My daughter's biological mom is a LOSER to say the least, and me and my MIL are the only mothers she knows. Being with someone with a child is very hard and trying on the relationship. If you are not in this for the long road then you might want to rethink your relationship because this guy will always be a dad and his child will always be there. |
.....Your husband sounds like he was on the right track, you picked good, good man
..... I think some women forget that it's about the children who's lives have been impacted the most in these situations....the women volunteer to be in these situations, children had no say.....
Could you imagine if some one told you you could only see your man on every other weekend or that you had to pack your bags every weekend or every other week and leave your home and go to another home for a few days...and then you had 2 sets of people telling you different rules, different friends, different schedules etc. for the next 18 years....most adults wouldn't except this but we sometimes expect our children to do it with absolutely no complaints...so sad....