[jp4m2]

This is a sad situation for the baby....the baby is stuck in the middle...the one thing that's a blessing in all this is you found a man who was willing to go through the drama and aggravation to win joint custody of his child, I know and see a lot of men who would have abandoned their child, that at least says something for his character as a man.....you have to know going into this the baby should be his number one priority, that's the price you pay getting involved in a relationship where there's prior commitments.....

This man is going to need a strong woman to support his obligations....without guilt, or complaining....I hope for all your sakes you come around and support him in this, if he's the one this is going to be a life long commitment for all involved....that includes the mother of the baby....it takes a special kind of woman to take this on with grace and a lot of sacrifice and compromises....and there may be a lot of times where you might have to hold your tongue just for the sake of peace.... Good luck