My daughter (24yrs old) was dating a guy (25 yrs old) that had a 9 yr old daughter. My daughter liked him but, couldn't get over him having a child. I told her his daughter would always come first in his life (which she should) and my daughter would either have to accept this or, not see him anymore. She just got out of a 6 yr relationship with a man she thought she would marry...(long story) so she isn't looking for a long term relationship...yet...but, a man having a child was something she didn't want..and I dont blame her...she is only 24. But, I think with a baby it would be easier...it all depends on what you are comfortable with. Good luck to you with what ever decision you make.
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