Hmmm... there are different types of spoiling I think. Some do no harm, like buying a toy or treat or outfit, but other forms of "spoiling" can, like letting it have it's way and not learning the word NO. So you can RESPONSIBLY spoil in a good way! The same is true with spoiling your human child too. Boundaries have to be in place and carried out, or then you have a bad spoiling. |