I was 19 when I had my son. I was NOT ready. 2 1/2 yrs later, I had my twins. NOT ready again.
I'm now 33, and I think I could be ready when I turn 35. Maybe it's true, your never ready. Both of my pregnancies were easy, physically. So-- draining, emotionally. I was very overwhelmed and a single parent of three at 23. Those were some hard years.
I have been with the "true" love of my life for 10 years now. We would both like to try to have a child, in two years. It's still scary, but by then we should (hopefully) be ready as can be. If not, then it wasn't ment to be.
My son is almost 14 (December) The girls just turned 11.