I didn't think you made him sound like a menace - he sounds very nice - I understand your concern... but sometime you can work with them to get them used to children -
I guess since I'm not in your shoes - I shouldn't really be saying anything - I Wish you all the best luck - I REALLY hope you find a solution that works for BOTH of you - If you DO give him up - I hope he gets a great home with someone to love him - after 9 years of being secure in his home - he deserves that. |