Tracey, I am so sorry you are going through this, but please do not declaw your baby... If he ever gets out he has no way to protect himself.. Is there a cat rescue group near you? the ones here are wonderful! It would be best
to find him a new home.. if you werent so far and he could be inside/outside, I would take him...
I feel so bad for you.... If I could help in any way, give me a holler!
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