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Originally Posted by punkie I will try that as well, thanks... but just wondering if this hurts him. When we've held him like that before, he's screamed and yelped like he was in pain, but he does that when we do something he doesn't like as well. |
make sure your not holding too awful tight, or it probably will hurt. but sometimes they scream because they don't like what you are doing...not because it hurts. you will learn to recognize his "cries"
if he is "submitting" to your bf, then he needs to be submitting to you as well. take the dominate role with him. if need be, tell your bf to step back a bit and let you do it...so that milo knows that both of you are in control, not just your bf