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Originally Posted by yougetthesmiles  I do know what your saying and I'm so torn. We have talked about it and I see where he is coming from.
We do have before bed time together, we read or watch TV or do what ever we want hehehe
But I just hate the thought of him wanting his own room. This is my 2nd marriage and we have a very strong marriage and I love him dearly, he would give me the moon if possible. |
He wants the tv on, I need it off...He SNORES, i need silence, he sweats his butt off, I sleep with 2 comforters in the summer. It doesn't mean we don't love each other or our marriage won't work. It's whatever works for the TWO of you. Don't let anyone tell you it's wrong. If YOU aren't comfortable with it then THAT is what could lead to problems, not the situation itself. Talk to him about it. Some people can't sleep without their significant other next to them...I can't sleep when he does. Everyone is different.