[Jenn218]

My husband and I have a very hard time sleeping if we are not together - I don't know why, but we have to be together....Like if he has a business trip and has to stay over night, he will call like 10x that day and he will call late when he gets to his hotel room to talk before he goes to sleep...and again, a call as soon as he wakes up.

We just have a queen bed, but only Mojo sleeps with us - Lily is in my daughters bed. I would get a bigger bed...one that he can test out to see if it helps his back....or one of those beds with different sides....like a kind bed with one half soft, the other firm, etc. I am sure they are expensive, but they may be worth it.

My grandparents (on my father's side) I don't think have ever stayed in the same bed/same room! He use to hunt at night (raccoon hunting, I think, strange, I know) and he would come in at all hours...plus, he snores. Right now, they are living in the same house (that her mother had in the 20's) and he is sleeping upstairs and she is downstairs. That is just how it has always been.

I guess...whatever works with you in your marriage.......

I would be more concerned with his back hurting sleeping on the couch every night though too. Maybe get twin beds for your room! Ha!