[tdessauer]

My fiance and I aren't even married yet and we sleep in separate rooms. After our first year together he started sleeping in his son's room. It started because he used to work midnights so he's sleep in there when he got home because it was just him, then he's sleep with his son when he came over. When he would sleep in the room with me he complained because I woke him up every hour because he was snoring, then I'd get mad because he pushed snooze a hundred times on his alarm.

Now we've just kind of gotten into a pattern. I sleep in our queen bed with Zoey and Boston and Bryan sleeps in his son's room. I used to cry about it thinking he didn't love me enough to sleep in there with me. But I've realized that we ALL get more sleep when we're in separate rooms.

We make time for cuddle and "other stuff" time and it works for us.

I think as long as you don't feel that it's for a different reason than I wouldn't worry