This man clearly has issues. And you said it...YOU are allowing this to happen! If it were me!! he would have only gotten 1 chance. He obviously knows all he has to say is he loves you and wants you back and you will go back with him....Call his bluff the next time (hopefully there won't be a next time) and tell him NO! I am not doing this anymore! and go on with your life. You sound like a smart girl and he is only going to hold you back. Of course it's going to hurt but, you will get over it. My daughter was in a 6 yr relationship with a man that she thought was going to be her husband and he just up and told her he didn't want her anymore....you talk about being hurt! and he was (and still is )with a little skank bag that he met in a bar 2 weeks after he told my daughter "I need time to think about what I want" I know what to give him!!
You don't need an emotional rollercoaster like this...he is definately playing games with your head...you are too smart for that! Tell him to take a hike the next time he calls.
__________________ Brenda |