You know we can give you all the advise in the world but its you that has to stop the insanity,i went through the same thing never going to my familys functions,never giving me a birthday party or present.one minute i was his girlfriend and one minute i was just a friend, i did this for ten years, until i finally woke up and dumped his ass,i realized i was doing all the work in everything in the relationship and you know,when i sped away from his house that day i never cried,or wanted to speak to him ever again i was done.
I realized what a door mat i was and finally found myself again and realized that having a man in my life did not make me happy,i had to find that happiness for myself,within me and stand up for myself,i get a lot more respect now from people because my self asteem its what its supposed to be.
I guess i was taught from the old school you need a man to make you happy and my man can be a part of my world but not my entire world,im fianally healthy in mind and spirit and every one sees it because it shows.
Donna |