[jp4m2]

Wow!...Clearly your not a stupid woman, you've demonstrated that in following your dreams and going where you had to go to further your dreams, I'm so glad I reached your conclusion at the end of your saga and saw that you realize you have been had.... I thought, Wow, I think she's seeing the light, four years wasted....I hope for your sake it doesn't turn into 5.........
In reading that, I for the life of me was trying to find what was so appealing about this man.... was he honest, thoughtful, compassionate, open, committed, respectful, supportive, was he willing to sacrifice, does he has the same values, morals,dreams as you???
How do you get a man to respect you or treat you with respect? Never settle for or permit less.
When people take outrageous liberties, when they betray our trust, when they display ongoing total disregard for our welfare, when they use and abuse, when they refuse to accept responsibility, for any of the pain and devastation we suffer....don't sit there and take it, the reality is that they don't care and they can get away with it...
I hope you have the strength and courage to make the right decision for your sake and follow through with it....Good luck...