Just a thought, What about telling her in general terms what has happened and is going on and maybe have your mom write her a letter explaing everything and it will be something you can hang on to and give to your daughter in the future when she has alittle more understanding of the situation.
__________________ Mommy of Cody,Gracie,Bella,2labs,1cat, 2 skinkids
one Angel Baby Boy  8/8/09 I carried you under my heart for 20 weeks and will carry you in my heart forever |