ok, i am about to reveal something about myself that you ladies do not know... I hope you will all have an open heart and mind and know that this has only affected my life in a positive way...helping me to stay on a straight path in life. My mother has been in prison since I was about 10 years old (off and on) this last time, because of repeated parole violations, she has been in for 12 years. She is SUPPOSED to come home in 2011. Well, we are in Tx visiting her. I come every year for her birthday. My 6 year old daughter comes too. We have always told her that we were going to gramma's work to visit her... Because we didn't feel she would understand what prison is or that gramma is a good person who did bad things a long time ago. Well, she is getting older and asking questions. She wants to know why we can't go to gramma's house, why gramma can't come to our house, why she cant go shopping with us, etc. I know I need to talk to trinity and explain things to her but I just don't know how. What do u think?? I am telling myself that it will probably go smoother than I think but I'm nervous