If money is too tight for a trainer right now, what about renting the Dog Whisperer season on DVD? So many of the "different" problems are addressed with similar solutions. Maybe you could get a couple of hints (or will power - because ain't that what it takes!!). At least you might get a bit of your "pack leader" instinct back that your baby stole from you. Don't worry, it has happened to all of us at one time or another. I'm much better this go around - I swear I won't give in!! ....
well, not as much anyway. 
Something interesting about Cesar and I wonder if anyone else has noticed or agrees ---- he is so AMAZING with the dogs HOWEVER we've noticed that the Yorkies don't immediately fall under his spell as all the other breeds seem to. He does always seem to succeed in the end, but it's funny because I swear that they give him a bigger challenge!