Oh Caren, those videos almost had me in tears! My hubby and I both sat here and watched them. Girl, I honestly have no advice as I have never seen anything like that before...but I feel SO AWFUL for little Murphy! I seriously wanted to just cry watching those videos. I can totally understand how TERRIFIED you must be. It would just kill me to have to see him do that all the time
If you don't mind, I will show these videos to Tatum's breeder and see what she thinks. She is a very, very sweet lady and has bred and raised Yorkies for YEARS...she is very educated and maybe she will have an idea of what this might be. Maybe she can give me some advice to give to you - although I do think it is best that you take him to another vet as you said you will be doing. SHAME on that other vet for telling you that you were over reacting!!

I can't stand doctors/vets who act like they just DON'T CARE!!! It completely furiates me!!!
I will e-mail the video links to Tate's breeder now and see what she thinks. Her hubby had surgery today, so I'm not sure if she will get back to me tonight, but I will let you know AS SOON as she does.
We are sending HUGE hugs to Murphy and Mia! And you as well...you poor thing