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Originally Posted by Proud Mommy  I will give you the $50 to run the background check... I am not on the computer all day so if something important comes up please call me instead of posting that I have not called you.
I feel like you are trying to discredit me, some of the posts make it look like I don't care about finding Zeke... It really hurts my feelings. |
This isn't something that just came up. This was posted last week several times. You have been online more than once since then and never addressed this.
This has been a very convoluted process because several 3rd parties keep responding for you and all the information gets disjointed. It is difficult to tell at times whether or not you really want others involvement or if it is simply being fueled by the desire of 3rd parties.
So, when I speak with you directly on the phone and say I can help if I get an email with specific information and it never arrives and you never take the responsibility to follow up, I assume that you really didn't want that particular offered help and are perhaps being pressured by 3rd parties to use it.
When you finally did call to follow up on the information, after 3rd parties got you to call, you again did not get the information to me. You also did not call to say you were having any trouble getting that information to me, nor did you follow up. You went online on Thursday, posted here, and never addressed that you had not sent the information or respond to the posts I had made in response to others' questions that stated I didn't have the information from you.
When you don't respond to posts or send information you agree to send during phone conversations, it sends the message that you are not the one interested in the help. It is totally fine if you don't want the help . It is your absolute right to handle this any way you want.
However, it is also my right to respond when others publically ask what is being done about a PI that I suggested on this public forum and for which gifts were solicited by others, or why a phone call was not made that I agreed to make. I am going to post what has happened and why I didn't make the call or follow through and why a PI is not doing anything.