[Tiggerwit]

Look, I don't mean to come across rude or harsh but you got kids that need you to be strong and positive. There is always something you can do!! Get your asswipe of a husband to work and get some money (this is his mess and he needs to help), you may have to go a few days without but.... Do you have family? Can they help? Will they watch the kids and dog while you work? Can you stay with them or your friends? Let your husband stay in the house that has nothing and let him deal with it. Cut back on everything you can, cable, internet, cell phones, just stick with the basics for now, heat, food, shelter. Get a paper route, you can take the kids and dog with you. Sometime they have signing bonuses. You are going to have to stop waiting for other people to solve your problem and take care of it yourself. I know you've made the calls but in the meantime you need to take care of yourself and those babies.

I'm not trying to come down on you, just help you realize you've got to move on. I know it's hard and everything seems like it's falling apart right now but you've got to keep going. I've been there. Fortunately I was able to move in with my folks and they helped out. My ex let my house go into foreclosure and my van repo'd. It sucked but the world doesn't end, it keeps going.

Big hugs. I hope you find a solution.