Jeanie, I'm so sorry that you and your husband are going through this. I'm here if you ever need to talk or vent. Both my husband and I have health problems. I have Crohn's Disease and have had 4 surgeries. He has a serious heart problem, and I live in fear that he will eventually need a transplant if medications don't help to strengthen his heart. There have been many times when I've cried in the car on the way to work because I get so frustrated with it all. We both just try to live our lives as normally as possible.
Let your kids be there for you, and if you need to have a meltdown, do it. I don't know what I would do without my two daughters and my son. They are always there for me and for my husband if we need to talk. It's not easy going through any of this, but just know that you have many friends here who care about you and who are willing to listen. I will keep your husband and you in my thoughts and prayers. |