When is Buddy's appointment??? I want to keep my fingers crossed that day.
I've found this thread interesting as I've often wondered the same thing. Recently, several of my friends have begun taking their dogs to a guy about 45 minutes from here...He encourages them to stay, and the trip is worth it. I called, and the next appt. wasn't for 45 days! LOL, I'm not that patient, so I talked to my vet. They put me in touch with a woman who is only 20 minutes away and who also invites the owners to stay! We've only been there once (and now that I've shaved Ginger, only Bernie goes next time), but what a great experience!!! I think all groomers should make this an option.
Now, I have to admit, Ginger is somewhat, ummm....highstrung. So, after a bit, I stepped outside so that she would stop trying so hard to get to me. But I did that on my own and stayed in the room the entire time that Bernie was groomed.
Good luck on grooming day!!!!!