wow girl...you need a hug!!!! bless your heart. i wish there was something i could do!
 
well, let us know if there is anything we can do. it sounds like you have your bases covered but sometimes, a girl just needs "girl time" 

 you have a lot on your plate right now. i wish you would take some time for yourself. sounds like you need it!! 
I hope your niece is ok. i have been there...i know how hard it is to go through. I will keep her in our thoughts and prayers.