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Originally Posted by bdbmamaw  My situation was a little different from yours. I made MORE money than he did and it really bothered him! But he sure didn't want me to quit...LOL! And I never did anything good enough!
What you are going through is call 'verbal abuse'. It's the same thing as 'physical abuse'! When my "EX" started doing it to my girls, and wouldn't consider counseling, I left. Hardest, but best thing I ever did!
I am now married (15 yrs) to 'Mr. Wonderful'. He treats me like a lady and tells me he loves me on a constant basis. I couldn't live without him! My girls consider him 'dad' as the 'sperm donor' (that's what they call my ex) has nothing to do with them.
I'm not suggesting that you leave, but I am suggesting that you seek counseling. Hopefully he will respond to your suggestion in a positive way. If not, please don't let your kids go through what you are going through.
Am I out of line fellow YTr's???? |
Nah your not out of line. He is walking a fine line of being opinionated and abusive.
Just last Saturday Hubby went on about how the house was not clean enough (he had some friends coming over)...boy did I cuss his ass out good. I had to clean three floors of a house and do a million loads of laundy. So if he was unsatisfied with how something was done he sure was welcome to fix it to his liking. He shut up really fast when the damn demon bi$Ch in me came out. I work a 35 hour week and the last two weeks each week I worked 80 since work was swamped with two big deals, I spend almost two hours a day in total on my commute to and from work, I maintain and manage a house, our finances, our children and our pets. So when he does all that on four hours of sleep then he can talk sh!t to me. Otherwise he can put a sock in it. Men always feel that their one job is so much. Let them try being us with all we do and the hormonal upheavals we get. Then they wonder when they are in the mood and we say we are tired why that happens...dumba$$es.