I'm sorry you're having a rough time. I wish your husband knew that being a mommy IS a FULL-TIME job! (I read somewhere that if "full time mothers" was an actual job, it'll cost well over $100,000/year for them). That's what we're worth!
I hope you cheer up and realize that you're important and sufficent! Don't let him put you in bad spirits! I'm sure it's fustrating..everyone goes through that. but you have you're kids and your furbaby!
Thank god my hubby understands that and constantly goes over his head to help me with everyday stuff (diapers, cooking, cleaning, screaming baby, pooping yorkie)...AND he is the main breadwinner with a FULL TIME job. I make sure to say "thank you" all the time. So to all you cynics out there, nice guys DO exist..still!