My situation was a little different from yours. I made MORE money than he did and it really bothered him! But he sure didn't want me to quit...LOL! And I never did anything good enough!
What you are going through is call 'verbal abuse'. It's the same thing as 'physical abuse'! When my "EX" started doing it to my girls, and wouldn't consider counseling, I left. Hardest, but best thing I ever did!
I am now married (15 yrs) to 'Mr. Wonderful'. He treats me like a lady and tells me he loves me on a constant basis. I couldn't live without him! My girls consider him 'dad' as the 'sperm donor' (that's what they call my ex) has nothing to do with them.
I'm not suggesting that you leave, but I am suggesting that you seek counseling. Hopefully he will respond to your suggestion in a positive way. If not, please don't let your kids go through what you are going through.
Am I out of line fellow YTr's???? |