Oh sweety I'm so sorry you are going through this. No woman should go through that. Although some of us do not put in as many hours as our other half does that doesn't mean we don't work harder. The thoughest job out there is being a parent. You are working 24/7 and your husband doesn't realize it. Let him come home early and do all the things you do and he'll see that working and being a parent at the same time is not easy. Of course he's got the easiest job...he doesn't look after the kids like you do. He doesn't have to walk in the house and go straight to the kitchen, he doesn't have to anwer 101 questions from the kids while trying to cook, clean & do laundry. Honey please don't let no one put you down. Please know that we have the hardest job out there. There are times where I'm overwhelmed because I work and then have to come home and cook while my fiancee can come home and lay down. Yes he does that but he's in charge of the cleaning so it balances out and he doesn't tell me he makes more than I do. Also what helps too is that my boys are older and they can stay home so the running around after work is done for me.
I'm feeling the same way you are today because I just lost my Lilly but I know I have to be strong at the same time. Please know that if you need to talk you can PM me. I'm here. You shouldn't be going through this. The Lord will be with you when you get your procedure done. I pray for a speedy recovery, |