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Originally Posted by Tillys_mom  I need some good advice here. My husband and I have been having some problems here lately, all due to the same problem. His family and I haven't gotten along for quite some time now. It all started in 2005 when she got mad because I didn't go to hubbys cousins b-day party the day after my great grandmas funeral. Now hubby and I have baby, which is the highlight of my days. Since we had my son things have just gotten worse with his family and I. They exclude me most times and the past few times we have visited they say mean things about my son, such as, "he has big ears", "he has a big round head", "he is bald". Stuff like that. His aunt also said he was going to be a hethan (sp) when he grows up, and this was the first time she laid eyes on him.
Hubby and I had a talk and I told him how much things were bothering me. They have caused a lot of emotional pain and since these issues have occured I have had a lot of mental and physical health issues. Hubby simply stated he would talk with them. So he calls them and tells them it bothered us and she asks me if I go to a counselor if it would help me. That was with her apology. Hubby thinks that is being sincere.  I tell him I think it's best not to go around them for awhile, he said that is asking to much. We just keep fighting the same argument. I want nothing to do with them and he thinks they are God's model parents. I feel this is never going to change. What would you do in this situation? I guess I just need advice and someone to talk to.  |
It's called self preservation...no I wouldn't continually go to someones home that treated me like crap....blood lines doesn't allow them open season on sh*t flinging...let them fling it at each other....
