I had the same problem with my MIL, from the beginning. I was the first DIL and it was not pretty. After I had both girls, I just stayed away from them and it all seems to work that way. My DH(of 24 years) has just had to accept that I will never be "buddies" with his mom!
I am glad I have girls and I dont have to have a DIL... it seems that mom's cannot let go of their baby boys... LOL
Stand your ground... You married him, not his mom. he will eventually agree that you dont HAVE to see them...
Good Luck!
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