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Originally Posted by txshopper73 Pat and Villette, thank you so much! None of us can figure out why he would do something like this! It infuriates me. I feel that he was being just SO selfish. I had talked to my mom on the phone and I told her, if someone is going to do something like this, do it before you have children!!!!! Why would you put people...especially children...through something like this???????????
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I just had to reply, getting ready to leave. Anger is normal, especially under the circumstances. But please remember, no one knows what another goes through or what caused him to do this. Depression is an awful disease and those that suffer from it do things they wouldn't normally do. Often people hide their depression for very unselfish reasons, but people cannot always deal with it alone. The family is left with unanswered questions and soon will begin to second guess theirselves, could I have done something, why didn't I see this coming, why did they do it. I would urge your family to find a support group asap to help them deal with this tragedy. My prayers are with you during this time. I will be gone until late Wed. But feel free to pm me if you need to talk, I am familiar with suicide and families left behind.