My thoughts are with you Elaine. This is one of the most difficult decisions to make and it does come with a price. You will feel devastated, however, knowning that Newman will not have to go through severe pain will help guide to that place of decision.
When Sophie was so ill, I knew she had to pts, but couldn't sign the papers the first time. Sobbed for days before, couln't sleep, sobbed in the vet's office and we decided it wasn't the right time for me although I believe Sophie was ready. A few weeks later, she had tried to stay alive for me (I kept hoping she would just die in her sleep). The vet told me we all wish they could just close their eyes, drift to heaven but it usually doesn't happen, and we have to help them cross the bridge.
On January 23, I knew clearly that I needed to help sweet Sophie. I can still remember her eyes, almost pleading with me. Thinking about those moments in time, I know this is painful for you.
Listen carefully to Newman because he will help you make the decision. Bless you and there is no magic answer. Warmly, Deborah |