I think you are handling it better than I would to be honest. You have every right to be mad. I'm furious for you! You should never smoke around the children if you are running or working at a daycare. It's sad that people don't have common sense. They will give a child care degree to anyone it seems. I use to work at two different daycares a few years ago and that is the reason I won't send my kids to daycare. Not all of them are bad, but it just scared me. The owner would throw big parties at the daycare and would get completly trashed and forget about all the booze laying around. There would be baby food next to the beer in the refrigerator. I would take the kids out to play and they would bring me tops to beer bottles and I'd have to hide it from the others. I was sick of covering for her. That is just setting bad examples for the children.
