I am just now seeing this thread but did hear about Lilly when she passed

Selina, I am SO deeply sorry sweetie. I know how much Lilly meant to you and I know how WONDERFUL you were with her, just as you are with Jake. My heart aches so badly for you
She is at peace now with God - and is at the Rainbow Bridge.
God Bless you sweet Lilly. R.I.P. little darling