My husband is in the Army, he's been in for almost 15 years now and we have been married almost 13 years
We have been together for 15 years going on 16
He has been to Korea twice (without me or the kids, for 1 year at a time) Once to Bosnia, the Lord has blessed our family because he hasn't been to Iraq yet ( knock on wood, I hope he never does). But it is your personal choice. It's not easy but it's not impossible