That's the advice my mom has been giving me from some time now. Hubby is a grown man and can make his own decision, I am a grown woman and I also can. It hurts me just as much to see them as it does him not to. I told him I didn't want anything to do with them anymore because I'm constantly sick from it and I have a 6 month old to take care of. He said I should give our children the option to see his side or not. I don't think he believes me that one day our kids aren't going to put up with it either. My son already screams everytime they even look at him, I think he senses the tension. Just wish hubby could see how they treat us. I'm sure it isn't the easiest thing to come to terms with...
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