Thanks for all your useful tips, I'm going to give the "fragile" explanation a try. I tried explaining to her that my bf and I don't feel comfortable with Tobi playing unsupervised with someone we don't know that well, but it's ok for her to play with him. But she is taking it SUPER personally and is getting border-line b*tchy about the whole situation (and she normally isn't a b*tchy person). I just don't want to burn any bridges b/c she is my bf's sister and we usually get along great; the only problem is her bf.
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