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Originally Posted by chattiesmom  Jannell -- I know nothing about tounge piercings so I'll just send some hugs. I know you are angry and hurt. My best suggestion would be to wait until you get home, take your dear sweet spoiled daughter who was disobedient ONE time out for a mother daughter date. Chances are, she is nervous about you finding out so let her be the one to tell you. When she does give her the most loving hug you have inside you. Talk to her about about your feelings and not to her. Please don't let one incident spoil an otherwise good relationship. Hugs  |
I've thought of what to say and just kept coming back to Cindy's post. I think that she's said it best.
The only thing that I would add is to not let this "little" thing get in the way of your homecoming. Little Thing???? Yes. I'm not making light of it. You seem to be more upset that she disobeyed you. We do the best that we can as parents. This is one of those learning experiences. She'll learn if her decision to pierce her tongue was a smart one through the healing, trying to eat and talk & the social acceptance of it in the real world.
As for my age and experience, lets just say that I'm a grandmother to 13 who range in age from 4 mos to 21 yrs.
Welcome home,
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